Here are counseling notes from Chapter 2 in the updated version of Sanctuary: Help and Hope for Victims of Domestic Abuse. Again, none of this information is part of the published book. They are here as an addendum. For Scripture passages, refer to the original book. Counseling notes are intended as application. Counselor's Note #1 … Continue reading Sanctuary Make-Over Chapter 2 Counseling Notes
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The Truth About Bathsheba
The Bible reading plan I'm following landed in 1 Chronicles 20 today. Verse one felt familiar: At the turn of the year, the season when kings go out to war, Joab led out the army and devastated the land of the Ammonites. He went and besieged Rabbah, while David remained in Jerusalem. Joab smote Rabbah … Continue reading The Truth About Bathsheba
Sanctuary Make-Over Counseling Notes
When the book, Sanctuary: Hope and Help for Victims of Domestic Abuse was in its beginning stages, it included notes for counselors. It was submitted for review and, desiring to be humble and teachable, I removed them from the book. Now, years and thousands of counseling sessions later, I have found the information accurate and, … Continue reading Sanctuary Make-Over Counseling Notes
Sanctuary Make-Over Chapter 2, Part 1
In re-writing the book, Sanctuary: Hope and Help for Victims of Domestic Abuse, I also shifted chapters. For that reason, this is the previous Chapter 4. It is hard to know how/if this book is for you until terms are defined. Because this is one of the most re-written and added-to chapters, it will require … Continue reading Sanctuary Make-Over Chapter 2, Part 1
Sanctuary Make-Over Chapter 1
When the book, Sanctuary: Hope and Help for Victims of Domestic Abuse was written, it was written quickly. It's time for a make-over. Chapter 1 additions--these are NOT included in the original book, but will flesh it out and provide a richer context: Each person, male or female, adult or child, rich or poor, influential … Continue reading Sanctuary Make-Over Chapter 1
Waves
As I listen to and interact with women--young and old--who find themselves in impossible situations, feeling powerless and hopeless, there are times I struggle with God's nearness and justice. I won't lie. It is lonely and difficult listening to those who have been sinned against when many of their churches teach that gossip involves speaking … Continue reading Waves
The Power of Guilt
Getting older provides me a freedom--freedom from the expectations of myself and others. In fact, as I was traveling this last week I found myself making choices based on personal preferences instead of obligation. There was no sin in those personal decisions, but there was newfound freedom. Perhaps you, like me, find yourself asking, "What … Continue reading The Power of Guilt
When “Trust God” is Used to Silence Discernment
Trust is one of many biblical principles that, misused, puts individuals in harm's way and severely limits their God-given ability. How could trusting God be wrong?
Be the Change!
If you or someone you know benefits from Seeking Sanctuary or Sydney Millage's ministry, please consider promoting Clarity in Action Ministries. Clarity in Action Ministries is a NEW nonprofit organization that values and cares for victims of domestic abuse by providing resources to equip the local church in a Christ-honoring way. We are concerned with … Continue reading Be the Change!
Faulty Theology
We must see marriage as a privilege instead of an entitlement. Marriage is not a rite of passage. It does not make anyone (man or woman) more valuable, more important, more wise, more capable, more....
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