Using the word "victim" to describe an individual experiencing domestic abuse is, perhaps, a bit archaic. Old-fashioned. Politically incorrect. Or is it? The choice of the word is intentional and sets itself up for discussion. What word would you use? Secular society chooses the word, "survivor." The idea is that anyone who has suffered abuse … Continue reading Why the Term, “Victim?”
Unjust Suffering
We are all familiar with suffering the consequences of making a poor decision. Children refuse to wear the clothing their parents tell them to and suffer as a result. We like to think that those who cheat, lie, steal, and hurt others will suffer the consequences of their behavior, but we don't always see it. … Continue reading Unjust Suffering
Couldn’t Be!
A common response to the book, Sanctuary: Hope and Help for Victims of Domestic Abuse, from those who have never lived in an environment of domestic abuse is, "Wow. I'd never allow that." Or, "What's wrong with those women?" For those outside the dynamic (by God's grace), this type of thinking and speaking is called victim-blaming. … Continue reading Couldn’t Be!
Where to Start?
Perhaps you've stopped in out of curiosity. You may be a family member, friend, or confused church leader/member. I've been that person--the one looking for help and trying to catch up to mile marker 402 for someone in need when I'm at mile marker 19....
Getting Started
The adventure has begun. The topic of domestic abuse--especially in our Christian churches--is often misunderstood and mismanaged. Women are confused, hurting, isolated, even angry--and are often told they are the problem. The purpose of the website is to provide resources for women experiencing abuse in any form. It is also an opportunity for you to … Continue reading Getting Started
Seeking Sanctuary 